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Most women want guys to approach them and flirt with them. At the same time, they are sick of so many guys approaching them. If this seems contradictory, that’s because most men do it wrong. They are either disrespectful to the women, or they are too cocky and egotistical.
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Flirting with a woman is essentially about:
- Showing your sexual interest in her in a discreet, non-sleazy way.
- Demonstrating that you can subtly dominate her during a conversation.
- Making her feel girly around you.
- Making her laugh and enjoy an interaction with you.
- Demonstrating your social intelligence.
Macho Step 1: Eye contact
The best way to catch a woman’s attention and find out if she’s interested is with eye contact. Don’t stare too long, and after a few meetings of the eyes, it’s time to stop ogling and start talking. There’s a fine line here between smooth and creepy. To stay on the right side of that line, smile when your eyes meet.
Macho Step 2: Tell her that she’s sexy
In a confident, easy-going, but also subtly sexual way, tell her that she’s sexy. Look her in the eyes, smile a bit and say, “You’re sexy.” If you have been behaving in a confident way around her, she will be feeling attraction for you and she will welcome the compliment.
She will usually then flirt back by giggling or displaying submissive body language (e.g. dipping her chin down and looking up at you like a little girl, biting her bottom lip, looking shy, etc).
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Macho Step 3: Flirting
You can use flirting body language or you can flirt with your words. Flirting is most powerful if you are confident and charismatic. If you try to flirt with a woman and come across as nervous, shy or intimidated by her, then she won’t really enjoy it. Why?
For flirting to feel right to a woman, she needs to feel attracted to you. Women are mostly attracted to a man’s strength (e.g. confidence, masculinity) and are turned off by any emotional weaknesses (e.g. nervousness, shyness, anxiety).
Macho Step 4: Reach out and touch
By all means, you should touch her. Obviously, this needs to be done in an appropriate and respectful way. Dont just drop into the erogenous zones women feel sexual. This is way past your initial meet! Ask about a ring or bracelet and touch her hand. If she is wearing interesting nail polish, that’s a perfect opening. If you’re sitting side by side, let your legs touch *but don’t rub them together*. Take small leaps to meet women, don’t ever rush. If you’re walking, try to take her arm when you’re crossing a street. If you’re in a bar or club and have to move through a crowd, take her hand and lead the way.
Macho Step 5: Take the lead on making plans
You usually don’t know when one of you will suddenly have to leave. There’s nothing worse than connecting with someone, then her friends drag her away and you don’t have an opening to ask her out or ask for a phone number. Find something you have in common early on and you’ll be ready to use it later.
When you’re trying to schedule a date, don’t waver or ask her to decide where to go. Most women like a man who is decisive about things like this. You should always have a few bars or restaurants, or other date ideas up your sleeve and ready to use.
Picking something that is different than where most other guys would take her is always a good move. But the important thing is to propose a specific place. Asking if she’d like to go for Mexican food sometime is less effective than inviting her to the great taco place you know.
Lastly, To make it more obvious, simply add in the mischievous smile while you’re talking to her/leaving. Always end on a positive note. The key to using the mischievous smile is to smile at her as though you KNOW that she wants to have sex with you. When you are thinking in that manner, you will be doing the smile correctly. You’ll reach a point to make her feel most desired in bed one day with our tip above.
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